The blood pumping through your veins is red, and so is mine. You’ve faced challenges in life, and so have I. I am not only marginalized for being Black in America but also as a Black man who’s gay in Black culture. There are more parts to us than race alone, you and I both look like resilience derived from Black experiences but that does not make us the same.
Black people may share common narratives and cultural traditions, and we may all be inexplicably bound together by society’s dislocated perceptions of Blackness. However, the diverse array of socio-political identities such as race, gender, sexuality, religion, physical appearance, and class within our community are separable.
So, the time is past due for us as Black people to extend our sense of grace. It’s time to cool off from catching the heat.
The ongoing fear to worry about protecting ourselves from homophobic and transphobic violence. There’s #BlackLivesMatter and there’s #ProtectBlackTranswomen; unfortunately the lack of protection for Black trans women is overshadowed as the media’s language devalues their existence. There is not enough media coverage, and there are not people talking about the violence protecting trans people as if they don’t matter.
There is no need to project hate onto each other. If you’re a fan, then just say that.
It is essential to remind ourselves to love Black people who are too often excluded from Black culture due to their gender identity or sexual orientation.
I am more than just a Black man. I am a fashion scholar who knows fashion is a political outlet that challenges normative traditions. I am a gay man who knows Black is beautiful in my everyday life. I am a Christian whose personal awareness and identity politics are rooted in learning from the experience of my queerness.
I love being Black; we are beautiful and hella dope but I know we’re more than just that. And I am not the only one who agrees. All of my identities add fuel to the fire regardless of who feels uncomfortable; all of my identities set fire to a fashion system built on false conceptions and normative traditions. We don’t wake up every morning with “gay” being the word of the day; instead, the words are “liberation” and “innovation”.
We work just as hard as the next person, fighting to be commanding.
If it’s hard to accept us because of our different orientations, get to know us and discover the things we both value. The innovation and coolness derived from Black and queer experiences are often presented as many embrace their everyday lives while consciously fighting to explore their truth beyond society’s gender, class, and race perceptions.
As we celebrate Pride Month, we highlight Black and LGBTQ creatives throughout New York City who are aware of their socio-cultural identities as they use innovation to storytell and express their Black and queer identities.
I asked the following questions: How has your Blackness and your queer identity influenced your creative work? In what ways has your creative work made a positive impact on other creatives? How will you continue to be a voice within your community?